No More Friend Zones

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Why do people settle in relationships?

Relationships are as mysterious as Stonehenge, the City of Atlantis and the Bermuda Triangle. You see so many couples that make no sense and wonder why they stay together seeing that they are so unhappy.

You see or may be one that is in a relationship with someone that has no trust for the other and neither one have anything in common. You can see the awkwardness and the dissatisfaction, so why do they stay together, why do people settle in relationships? Continue reading

7 Must Have Techniques To Attract Women

techniques to attract womenIt seems that getting dates and attracting women is still after all these centuries, a mystery for many men. So many misleading and confusing theories that are out there and many experts that are selling you complex crap when I think it is more basic and follows an easier common sense approach.

Men are told by their mothers to be nice and gentlemanly, our fathers tell us to play hard to get and games. Men’s buddies feed us a bunch of lines and many pickup-artist offer advice to be yourself and all of these just don’t seem to work. Continue reading

16 signs you are not ready to date

Dating own its own is something that takes some effort and understanding, but venture down that road after a breakup brings about many more concerns you should think about. Are you actually ready to get back out there and date again?

For some, the question could be, have you ever actually dated to start with? There are signs you are not ready to date and you really should look for them to avoid pain and possibly more heartache.

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How to get a good guy

Relationships and dating even though it can be fulfilling and rewarding, can also be very tough and sometimes a lot of work. A number of women end up with so many not so great men ranging from someone really terrible to guys that are just too nice. It seems you can find plenty of really nice guys but the problem is there is usually just no chemistry.

Guys that are too nice are no challenge, kind of boring and even a bit like a brother. Then you go to the other end where you meet an exciting guy but he turns out to be a complete loser. He either lies about everything, including cheating and or he always taking way more than giving. So the real challenge is to figure out How to Get a Good Guy? Continue reading

How To Write An Online Dating Profile For Men

How many times have you tried online dating only for it to only end in a failure? If you do manage to get a woman to talk to you, they seem to disappear or the conversations dwindle out. Of course the most common thing to happen to us men is that you can message a hundred women and never get a response, nor does it seem any women are writing to your profile.

The next thing you know, you start doubting yourself, thinking the worst things about yourself and then watch your self-esteem and confidence go down the drain, is there any hope? Well don’t despair, because there are people that can show you how to write an online dating profile for men, not a generic one for everyone, one just for the guys.

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Prerequisites for dating

Have you been trying to get out and date with not so favorable results? Does it seem that every time you put yourself out there, try and reach out to someone, it blows up in your face? Or every time you meet someone, it’s either they don’t live up to your expectations or you don’t seem to fill theirs?

It can be so disheartening, ego bruising and a destruction of your self-esteem and self-confidence. There is a reason why people fail at dating, it is due to no prerequisites for dating and have you guessed what the prerequisites are? That’s right my friend, it’s all you.

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How to make her want you

The dreaded “Friend Zones”, it isn’t the best place to be in but it seems so many men and women are stuck in this scenario. Why you may ask? Is it because people have lost the art of flirting, women have higher expectations or that men are just not men anymore?

It’s said to “just be yourself”, that it is the best way to win a woman’s heart but quickly for men, they find themselves locked into the Friend Zone. You see a woman you really want to get to know, to date but you might feel you have to be someone else to get her romantic attention, then you aren’t being yourself. Being nice and buying her stuff isn’t working, doing favors and always complimenting only seems to be burying you deeper as a friend, so “How To Make Her Want You”? Continue reading