Here is a post from a guest writer with a question and or advice, please leave comments on what you feel might help her with her dilemma.
Hi, I’m a woman, a few years from 30 and my “love life” thus far has been extremely minimal. I’ve always found it impossible to get the interest of men that I liked. Now I know what you’re going to say, that I went after “bad boys” or “suave guys”, but that’s honestly not the case.
I’ve always tried to be in the presence of guys that shared my interests (which can be pretty nerdy). After so many failed attempts, an increasingly complicated and confusing system of “courting” and rampant casual sex, I pretty much gave up on it. For at least 4 years now I never really ventured back into the dating scene.
Of course deep down I want to experience a real, long-lasting relationship and marriage, but I’m practically a middle-schooler again when it comes to dating knowledge. Do you have any advice on what steps I should take to inch myself back into the dating world?